Diary Post #2

Sooooooooooo what annoys me the most is when people blame others for their unhappiness...

I have a friend who ever year their "friend" blames the mishaps of her birthday not going well on my friend, and let me tell you how much that "chaps my a*s..." lol

I just don't like for others to place blame especially when people do not plan well...
If you know the club is going to be packed and unless you have VIP then get there early but don't get upset when you cant get in....

I try my best not to place blame on others when things in my life do not go as I would like them to go. See I have control of life as do you so when things don't go as you may have planned them, that's when you roll with the punches and try to have fun with the chances BUT don't push your friends back up against a wall and hurt their feelings because your night is not going as planned.

Did you do all you needed to do to make sure your plans went accordingly? And even when you plan perfectly LIFE HAPPENS....
"Tough titty said the kitty" so get over it and just have as much fun as possible....

But to end this little rant your friends support you if they are a true friend but if you continue to find reasons to be mad at a certain friend it is not fair to them to continue hurt them for no reason just let them go.....

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