Just Wondering

Have you ever had a guy hit on you? Tell you how beautiful you are? Tell you how he wants to get to know you better?



Then precedes to hit on your friend? How does that make you feel? Well it has happened to me more then once and it makes me feel a little low at some point....



Its like, "were you using me to get to them?" Cause if that's the case men just go for the one that you wanted in the first place.



Men here is the dumb thing that you do. Don't try to put two friends against each other, don't try to hit on best friends, it makes you look desperate.



I'm just saying be a man about it. Its rather disgusting honestly...

And guess what? If the friendship is a true one it will last beyond your trifling self lol

I just have never understood a man that hits on one girl then next week he is hitting on all her friends. Are you that desperate for attention?

Pick ya jaw up off the floor, become a man, learn to accept rejection and start hitting on women who look interested in you.

Trust me women drop hints all the time to men they are interested in. It is up to you to pick up on the subtle hints and hell sometime they are not that subtle just don't be naive and don't hit on friends. Its not a good look.

Moral of the story it makes you look like a hoe and/or desperate...

I'm Just Saying.... *Kanye Shrug*

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