Just Thinking
Another old note from my Facebook Days lol
I have never used this whole "note" thing but I had something on my mind and decided to write. My mom is the reason for this note because the first thing out of her mouth when I date a guy is "well how much money is he spending on you?" But my question is does that really matter? Does God spend money on you but yet still makes you happy right? I mean I agree that both people should be taken care of but what type of relationship do you have if it revolves around money?...Here goes nothing lol:
What defines an intimate relationship with someone?
Is it the money that you all spend on one another or is it the time you all spend together?
Is it defined by how they dress or how they treat you?
Is it the money that makes you smile or is it their spirit that makes you smile?
Does the car they drive comfort you when you are down and out or is it their arms that hold you to comfort you?
Is it having access to their bank account or is it having access to be able to pray with them?
Is it defined by the kind of phone they use or how much they talk to you?
Is their love defined by how BIG a gift is or how much it cost OR is their love defined by the small things that they provide for you like a kiss on the forehead when you are sick or a rose just because you were on their mind?
Do you give up when things get hard in the relationship or do you give it another shot and try to make it work because you yourself is not perfect?
Is it defined by how many hours in a day they work and ignore you or by how many hours in a day you are on their mind and they are out there making a living for you?
Why do we measure our love for someone by their success? These are only materialistic things, things you can not take with you in the after life. Have you ever noticed the happiest couple have the least money lol....Look at some of these rich couples marrying for status, ever notice that they are not truly happy. I am NOT saying that every poor couple is happy and that every rich couple is not happy what I am saying is do not base your relationship off of what they can do for you financially. Follow your heart and fall in love with their soul. Pray to God and he will direct you in the path that you should take.
The best relationships are those who put God first.
Feel free to comment I just wanted to get that off my chest. I know that he cant give me the world but what he does provide for me is something more then money. If you feel me comment lol
Have a Blessed Day everyone.
(((The guy I wrote this about, we are no longer a couple because I found out the mother of his child was really his wife....LONG story to say the least....))))
I have never used this whole "note" thing but I had something on my mind and decided to write. My mom is the reason for this note because the first thing out of her mouth when I date a guy is "well how much money is he spending on you?" But my question is does that really matter? Does God spend money on you but yet still makes you happy right? I mean I agree that both people should be taken care of but what type of relationship do you have if it revolves around money?...Here goes nothing lol:
What defines an intimate relationship with someone?
Is it the money that you all spend on one another or is it the time you all spend together?
Is it defined by how they dress or how they treat you?
Is it the money that makes you smile or is it their spirit that makes you smile?
Does the car they drive comfort you when you are down and out or is it their arms that hold you to comfort you?
Is it having access to their bank account or is it having access to be able to pray with them?
Is it defined by the kind of phone they use or how much they talk to you?
Is their love defined by how BIG a gift is or how much it cost OR is their love defined by the small things that they provide for you like a kiss on the forehead when you are sick or a rose just because you were on their mind?
Do you give up when things get hard in the relationship or do you give it another shot and try to make it work because you yourself is not perfect?
Is it defined by how many hours in a day they work and ignore you or by how many hours in a day you are on their mind and they are out there making a living for you?
Why do we measure our love for someone by their success? These are only materialistic things, things you can not take with you in the after life. Have you ever noticed the happiest couple have the least money lol....Look at some of these rich couples marrying for status, ever notice that they are not truly happy. I am NOT saying that every poor couple is happy and that every rich couple is not happy what I am saying is do not base your relationship off of what they can do for you financially. Follow your heart and fall in love with their soul. Pray to God and he will direct you in the path that you should take.
The best relationships are those who put God first.
Feel free to comment I just wanted to get that off my chest. I know that he cant give me the world but what he does provide for me is something more then money. If you feel me comment lol
Have a Blessed Day everyone.
(((The guy I wrote this about, we are no longer a couple because I found out the mother of his child was really his wife....LONG story to say the least....))))
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