Too Much...

Sometimes I try way to much to make others happy forgetting about myself along the way....

I am slowly but surely learning how to just make me happy and be ok with that....One must understand that you can not be perfect. You will never be able to please everyone...

Some personalities just tend to crash with each other no matter how you try and make them mesh they just wont...

My suggestion: Don't try to be close friends and force it if it just wont work. Just be cordial, be nice, be respectful but you don't have to tell secrets to each other just understand each other....

I love all the people whom I am close to now and who I use to be close to because they have an important part in my life, they have been written in a chapter of my life and I have learned from the experiences with them as well as enjoy them because at one point they truly made you happy....

I have learned that I can no longer continue to go out of my way to try and make everyone happy until that happiness resides in myself which I am currently working on....

I hope this provides a little insight....

Be blessed until next time.....

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