Apologies...



In the past couple of days I have had several men from my past come back and apologize to me for hurting me in the past and I have got to say it is definitely a weird feeling by far....


One of them is actually experiencing the feelings I felt for him from another girl..its weird when someone is finally feeling what you went through...


I know how bad it hurt and I would never wish that pain on anyone not even my enemy (well I don't have any of those but still lol)


Its truly funny how "Karma" works sometimes but its nothing you can do about that. Its life...


Sometimes people have an epiphany realizing that once upon a time they had a good person...


But I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason so if you all broke up then for me that means that God has other plans for you..


Everything is a learning tool in my eyes...


Everyday is another day to learn so take advantage of it....


If they apologize accept it, especially if its from the heart it provides some relief for you...


When you forgive people forgive them not for them but for yourself because the longer you stay angry at them the longer they hold the power over you...


While you are sitting and sulking in sadness they have moved on and are happy and you deserve that happiness as well so take it and experience the bliss of happiness and forgiveness.....

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