Life Of No Ordinary Rose...

.....What does all that mean? How do you define what makes someone, one of those names? Is it her lips, her curves, her hips, her hair? Is it how she dresses? Conservative or Sexy? Which do you prefer? Is the upkeep of herself? The way she walks? The way she talks? Is it the confidence that she exudes? Her swagger? For me I think that it is a mixture of everything. If you want to be considered or called one of those words in the title then make sure you feel that way first inside and that feeling will reach the outside. A man loves a confident woman. No man wants a woman who shows her insecurities at every chance she gets whether its being upset about a friendship with the opposite sex to constantly downing yourself. I have had this problem and many men have told me how hard it was for them to even try to love and care for me when I couldn't even love and care for myself. So once your confidence is there then the next step you will be that "Sexy" woman that you would lik...

...Make people do things that they do not want to do... Sometimes people lie to you and there is nothing you can do about it... You cant change them, that is something they must do on their own... Yes, sometimes loved ones will let us down but we have to allow them to look at themselves to make changes... It hurts but its not our duty nor is it in our power to change them Our job is to love them and accept them and as hard as it maybe sometimes we have to realize that some of our loved ones need that tough love. When they see that we no longer depend on them or get mad when they bail on us they will see some of the damage that they have done and the changes will begin if they have not already. Be patient with them just as we would like them to be patient with us. It is not an easy process but it is a process. So take it for what it is....

....that we are all searching for? What do you truly want out of life? Me? Happiness Something that I am sure many people share the same goal of attaining... But how does one find their happiness? And how does one know when they have achieved that goal? I'm not sure BUT what I do know is that I make steps everyday to find that happiness. -Take steps toward your career goal -Take steps toward where you want to be financially -Take steps toward fixing your romantic relationships if they are worth fixing -Take steps toward fixing broken friendships if you so desire -Take adventures -Do or try to do all the things that you have always dreamed up These are the things that I am doing in my "pursuit of happiness" I try to be a motivator and to inspire people. I try to speak for those who have no voice and lastly I try to provide people with words of wisdom from situations in life that I have went through. I feel like that is a part of what God has put me on this Earth to do and ...

I have made a vow to myself. A vow that I would not break another promise to myself ever again... I have a small diamond ring given to me by my mother that only fits on my ring finger and recently I have started to wear it as a symbol of all the things that I plan to do in my life and this endless circle on my finger will remind me of how I can not give up on myself. I want to never let myself down again like I had in the past... This is a new me, a fresh beginning, a way to say "I love you Rosemary" and mean it. There is so much that I want to do with my life and I know that I can do it all. So, I promise myself that I will promise to be good to me and to know my worth. I'm feeling really good about life right now even though everything is not where I want them, I know that with this promise, my faith, determination, focus and God I am going to achieve all of my dreams and goals that I have set for myself.

....Do we know the difference between the two? Sometimes when we fall for someone we forget all about logic and fall completely in love, and if that person is the one then falling head over heels for them isn't so bad BUT The problem arises when we fall for someone who is bad for you that's when we need to use logic... Sometimes we need to learn when to use our head instead of our heart....our head is the logic that we need sometimes to see through the people that are trying to hurt us and the ones that are good for us... Sometimes the signs are right in front of our face but we are too love ridden to even see how toxic they may be for us, trust me I was in one. I was so far head over heels no one could tell me anything about him, I never saw what everyone was telling me until I got all the proof that I needed right in front of my face.... Love can totally blind us, good or bad we still need to use logic in loving to ensure that we have the best possible experience in love tha...

This is the 6th Father's Day that I have had to spend with without my father. My Dad died of throat cancer in April of 2004. Let me explain how burying a parent has to be one of the hardest things I have ever had to do in my life. I will never forget the day, well the night that I learned that my father was gone. It was a surreal moment, it was like time stopped. I felt like someone was lying to me. I felt like the breath in my lungs had been taken from my chest. I was my daddy's one and only little girl and we looked just alike just a different skin color. No matter what he did that others may have viewed as wrong he treated me like his little princess. What I regret the most is that in the months before I even knew he was sick we were out of touch with each other. He didn't have a stable place to live and I was a freshman in college. I should have reached out to him more but I didn't. Almost a year before he died him and my mom were both at my high school graduation...

Everyone has these, some you should try to get off your chest to make you feel better and some (as cliche as it sounds) are just better left unsaid.... A true secret is only a secret if it never leaves the lips of the ONE person whom it happened to originally... Once the "secret" leaves your lips, think about it, it is no longer a secret because someone else knows.....and that is okay If you truly do not want anyone else to know about something, then never open your mouth about it and it shall remain your secret... Usually people place lying and secrets together, you DON'T always have to lie to keep a secret....just let it be something that you prefer NOT to talk about. That is unless it is truly damaging, life threatening or life changing. That is when your morals come into play and you should allow them to guide you.... Secrets can destroy lives so when dealing with them make sure you proceed with caution... Love life...