Life Of No Ordinary Rose...

WOTD: New, tonight we celebrate a new year. With that u have the chance of bringing in a new u. New can be good or bad, let's choose good.

WOTD: Jealous, spending your time being jealous of what someone wide has won't get you what you desire. Just wastes time, go get it yourself

WOTD: Simple, dont over complicate simple things in life. Take some stuff at face value. When u over analyze it usually messes something up

WOTD: Forgive, to forgive is not for the other person its for u. As long as u hold they have the power to always upset u. Time to let go.

WOTD: Reason, the reason for the season is more than just the giving of gifts. It's about showing love, being grateful, & appreciating life

WOTD: Love, love comes in many forms & it comes when u least expect it. When its real its real. I've seen love grow its a beautiful thing

WOTD: Smile, u may have woke up angry but smile. Remember no matter how low u sink things could always be worse. U didn't gave to wake up

WOTD: Attention, everyone wants attention from somewhere but all attention isn't good & too much can turn into something else. Be aware.

WOTD: Time, time isn't promised to any of us. Don't keep putting off for tomorrow what u can do today. Enjoy it for tomorrow is a surprise

WOTD: Basket, don't put all your eggs into 1 basket. That basket may break & where is your back up plan? I'm not speaking on love just life

WOTD: Buy,u can't buy love & happiness. Nothing wrong w/enjoying the fruits of ur labor but there is more than money that can make u happy.

WOTD: Compromise, in any relationship 1 must learn to compromise. You won't always agree, so its best to try & find a happy middle ground.

WOTD: Volunteer, being able to volunteer your time to others who need it is a blessing. Give back put a smile on a face...

WOTD: Have, some times you have to do what you have to take care of yourself or family. When life hits you may sacrifice pride to keep going

WOTD: Break, its ok to take a break. You can only push yourself as far as your body will allow. It will let you know when its had enough.

WOTD: Consistent, consistency can take u far if used properly. U can be consistent in not being dependable OR u can be the 1 others count on

WOTD: Happy, u can't make everyone happy its impossible so stop. The 1 u need to make happy is u. If ur not happy, u can't make others happy

WOTD: Practice, practice what u preach. Don't look down upon someone when u are doing the same thing. Yea you stink too. Clean it up.

WOTD: Super, you're not super human so no need to go above & beyond for someone that's not doing the same. Go that route & be super for you.

WOTD: Dream, dream as big as u want. U might fall but get back up & be patient they dream will come true in due time. Whenever you're ready

WOTD: Give, tis the season to give. There are local charities in need of your donation. Help out someone who is less fortunate than yourself

Today' s WOTD is dedicated to a local designer named Vanne and a friend of mine. WOTD: Vanne, vanne means u have drive, ambition & to be creative. Set a goal & get ur Vanne on. Be creative & use ambition to make it happen

WOTD: Credit, give credit when it is due. It will backfire when u say u did all the work when u didn't. No harm in saying, "I had help"

WOTD: Cry, crying is not a form of weakness it is a way to release some anger. If you wanna cry then cry. It can help you feel better.

WOTD: Victim, playing the victim is like the boy who cried wolf. When you need help no1 will believe you. Don't start things & then cry wolf

WOTD: Know, a lot of times you know exactly what you are getting yourself into so don't act surprise when the consequences come. No mystery

WOTD: Standard, with everything you do in life have a standard for it. By looking for it to meet your expectation you can see the flaws. So if they meet your standards AND you can accept their flaws then it sounds like a winner...

WOTD: Responsibility, being an adult comes responsibility. U may have to miss out on some things but that's ok responsible is a good look.

WOTD: Past, u have to let the past be the past. U can change ur future by learning. If "what if" happened then it wouldn't be  "what if"

Big things come keep your eye out for me ;-)

WOTD: Different, they say different strokes for different folks. What makes you happy won't work for everyone. Even the people have things in common with will be different. No two people are completely alike. We are like snow flakes, similar but each one has something unique about it.

WOTD: Slow, life is so fast paced that some times its good to just slow it down and just enjoy life. Cherish those little moments.

WOTD: Love, when you find that true love hold on to it. Commitments take work. Celebrate your love daily. Love yourself & somebody else.

WOTD: Humble, learn to humble yourself. Most "real" people don't surround themselves with cocky people, but with confident people.  Unable to humble means you are covering some insecurity. Look at yourself and chill out. Humble people don't need to boast.

WOTD: Give, the holiday season puts us in the mindset to give back to those who are less fortunate than ourselves. If you are blessed enough to have extra, give to those in need. Today is Turkey Tuesday so head on down to Joey Cuts and give a turkey or other donation to help feed families this Thanksgiving.

WOTD: Associate, the term friend can sometimes be used too loosely. Know that some people are just an associate. If you don't know the difference you may need to re-evaluate your friendships.

WOTD: Feeling, don't be afraid to tell others what you are feeling. You may get the reaction you desire. You never know until you try. And if its not the reaction you want oh well. Learn from it and push forward. #Swag

WOTD: Inspire, the smallest things can inspire. Take small inspiration & turn it into a reality. True inspiration may be what u least expect

WOTD: Envy, don't envy what others have. Be grateful for what you have. The grass may look greener on the other side but it may be turf instead of grass. Meaning not real at all. The grass may even be dead....

Happy Monday and many blessings to you all... Rose

WOTD: Do-Over, ever wish you could have a do-over? Well you can everyday is a day in which you can start fresh. Try it today and see what happens. You may be surprised.

WOTD: Pressure, some say they work better under pressure. But is that truly your best work. When you let it come down to the last minute there is no double check. Submit as is. Maybe pressure isn't all that great.

WOTD: Wrong, some times the hardest thing to do is to admit when you are wrong. Admitting being wrong doesn't take from you it actual helps you. Humble people know when they are wrong. I respect humble.

WOTD: Cry, crying is not a sign of weakness. Allowing yourself to cry releases a lot of things that may have been built up. It is ok to cry. Soothed the soul. Cry on....

WOTD: Motivation, there is motivation behind everything you do. Sometimes its hard to find the motivation for a new task but don't give up.

WOTD: Mixed, its so easy to throw mixed signals to ppl. Be careful about the signals ur showing. If u think there is confusion clear it up

WOTD: Wisdom, knowledge and wisdom are not the same thing. Wisdom comes with experience in real life while knowledge ties more with intellect and education. Just because you have knowledge does not men you have wisdom. As you learn from life your wisdom will expand.

And now I have gone mobile so I will be able to release my thoughts as needed. :-)

I will be posting my Word of the Day everyday on here and on my brand new FB fan page.... I know that I have left you hanging but things about to change. :)

This is how I have been feeling lately...

My Shoe Collection is expanding here is a few pics :) What do you think?

Have neglected thee.... No worries I shall return shortly....

Have you checked out Shoed-In yet? If not you are missing out....

Oh my..... I don't even know where to start with the eX Factor... Lately my ex and I have been going back and forth trying to figure out what is next and neither one of us know where we will end up. Marriage? Kids? Moving to another state together? I have no idea. What I do know is that the feelings are real on both sides. Will we be together again? I don't know.... *shrugs* we shall see

So I have started another year of coaching at Lee's Summit High School and I am pretty excited to begin a new journey with these 8 young ladies.... Regionals in July 22nd at Lee's Summit North High School come see us perform. This week is a big week because we are getting ready fo cheer camp. How fun lol 3 days of non-stop cheer ;-)

So we took AU Cheer to JamFest back in March and they did an awesome job. I felt good as a coach to leave on that note. I will miss the girls but I know they will continue to progress and do well.... XOXO

I have been MIA.... Sorry my faithful readers I have had alot going on here recently.... I decided NOT to apply for the Avila Cheer Head Coaching position and instead I am picking up a different squad to coach and I am happy with that decision.... Life is good and I am taking the bull by the horns.... Shoed-In is taking off and I have been working hard to try and be a very productive member of the team. Please, please, please go check out www.shoed-in.com I promise you will enjoy :) Let's see what else.... OH!!! The ex came home and I finally saw him after almost 3 years...that was interesting. I will update that a little later on.... Any who I promise to be getting back to you guys soon. How I have missed you so. :(

things popping.... Shoed-In has been receiving sooo much LOVE yall better look out cause we are making waves.... I might be Avila University's new Head Cheer Coach.... Been working on my book some more... I have been offered the opportunity to write for R.U.B.I.E.S an up and coming non-profit organization that is ALL about uplifting young women which is an honor in itself.... I have a lot going on and its all positive.... Be on the lookout :)

Unlikely source.... So a new found friend told me that this time last year he was fighting cancer and that hit me like a ton of bricks.... I lost my father to throat cancer so I know the pain and strife that comes along with something like that so for him to healthy and where he is today still fighting for his dream gave me a renewed sense of strength to keep fighting every tight I even think about giving up. I know that I have had it rough but I have never had something that would effect my well being.... What an admirable trait to be able to fight through something like that.... I can only imagine the pain that one goes through when experiencing cancer.... I am glad that I got a chance to meet him cause now every time I think that things are too hard I will think of him and continue to push because you see in reality things can always be harder....

We competed at UCA Nationals on Saturday, January 15 th and we are currently ranked 7 th in the nation in All-Girl Division II... NEXT We will be competing on February 19 th and 20 th at JamFest Nationals at the Kansas City Convention Center....come out and support Avila Cheer... Don't be surprised when we take home the national title... Cheer, cheer, cheer.....I know that you guys know that this is my passion.... Well right now I am living in limbo waiting to hear the outcome of a very BIG decision.... The current Head Coach is stepping down and guess who wants to step up? Yep. You guessed it. Me... Keep me in your prayers and we shall see what happens.... This team has made it through a lot this year and I am very proud of them because they continue to work through all of the issues that are being thrown at them... Love you guys....Seriously.

....do you have that person, that love interest that just keeps coming back? As John Legend put it, they are "another again" This is that person that you can go time with out talking to them and then when you seem them its like no time has passed at all and you find yourself right back in the those who you swore you would never be in again.... I have that person and I am not exactly sure what to do because I will see him in March and if it will be like some of our old encounters it shall be an interesting visit.... Its a weird situation and even if I tried to explain I don't think you all would even understand.... Just saying.... I'll keep you updated *sigh*

Sooooooo..... 2011 has already started out with a BANG!! Lol I have been super busy but no worries I have a lot to tell you all and to express just give me a second and I promise to get it all out.... Thanks for being patient.