Boys, Boys, Boys...

...."Boys I do adore...put ya number on this paper cause I would love to date ya holla at ya when I come off tour"....

Man so recently I have had some experiences recently with some men that have given me a little insight on the "Man's World"....

Most women dream of the day that they get married to their "Knight in Shining Armor..." but what we learn later is that it takes alot of time, effort, and trial & error...

Some, well most women have to date again and again and test the waters before they find the one they will end up with the rest of their lives they are typically, hurt or sometimes the relationship just does not work out the way they wanted it too...

Nonetheless it is a learning experience that we can and should all learn from...

With the bad comes the good and with the good comes the bad so when you truly find that one person who you can accept flaws and all so with that you have to want to be with that person and fight for it even when times get rough....

So date, date, date, and date again....why not? You have to find out what you like in a mate and what you don't like. But don't lose your self respect and/or dignity and you don't have to sleep with them all just converse and hang out with them...either you will feel butterflies when you are with them or you wont.

So for me my search continues....although its not really a search I am just open to going on dates and hanging out until "Mr Right" pops his head up lol

Live. Laugh. Love

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