Life Of No Ordinary Rose...

Sooooooo in this hectic life I like to call my own I have met a guy who could possibly put me in my place and get me to settle down lol He is like a mystery and I think I like it... He doesn't like to answer my questions via text he prefers face to face so he can "show" me as he so eloquently states it lol... We shall see where this goes. I wont put much out there that is just a snippet... I saw my friend Sarah get married on Sept 12th and she looked absolutely gorgeous. I am so happy for her and her husband I am sure they will be together for awhile. They are those people that when you meet them you can see that they were made for each other. Yea....black love at its finest.... This Saturday I have yet another wedding to go to. I have see my homie Clinton get married. I wouldn't miss it for the world. He is a good friend. I also have a baby shower to go to. It is for a friend of mine whom I use to cheer with back at Avila. She is so excited about the bundle of joy an

....for a minute, I'd like to know your name.... Communication is key to any successful relationship, intimate or not... Holding things in, lying, miscommunication , etc will always lead to problems with people whether its your mate, your friend, your co-worker or fellow student.... Why when something is bothering you do you hold it in until so much has built up that you just explode? That just makes everything worse then what it has to be and that's real.... You can easily fix one problem at a time, but do you know how hard it is to fix multiple problems? VERY hard and dang near impossible.... How can someone fix something that they do not know is broken? If you don't tell them that something that they are doing is bothering you how can they be a friend and fix it? They cant. They are not mind readers.... We have a tendency to assume that people know that something is bothering you when in reality they don't ..... OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND SAY SOMETHING!!!! At least if you

...."Boys I do adore...put ya number on this paper cause I would love to date ya holla at ya when I come off tour".... Man so recently I have had some experiences recently with some men that have given me a little insight on the "Man's World".... Most women dream of the day that they get married to their "Knight in Shining Armor..." but what we learn later is that it takes alot of time, effort, and trial & error... Some, well most women have to date again and again and test the waters before they find the one they will end up with the rest of their lives they are typically, hurt or sometimes the relationship just does not work out the way they wanted it too... Nonetheless it is a learning experience that we can and should all learn from... With the bad comes the good and with the good comes the bad so when you truly find that one person who you can accept flaws and all so with that you have to want to be with that person and fight for it even when

Sometimes we need to find a way for us to release our stresses and just forget about all the things that get us down... And for me that is Retail Therapy....Shopping that is lol Like other women I LOVE to shop BUT unlike other women I don't like spending alot of time at the mall or in crowded boutiques and shops... I typically know what I want and try and find it and if I cant find it then that means I don't need it in my eyes..... I LOVE SHOES!!! I love heels, tennis shoes, flats, sandals, wedges, flip flops, boots, etc... I love them all, every color and style... So usually when I go thru my retail therapy phase I typically look for shoes to add to my collection.... Retail therapy helps me to clear my mind and forget about all the things that bother me... Find away to relieve your stress...you will feel better later :)

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...It has to be one of the hardest things to deal with BUT difficult isn't impossible... I still have trouble dealing with feelings from the death of my father and other loved ones but you got to know that they would want the best for you and would not want you sulking over something that was out of your control.... Death is never easy and sometimes the pain never fully goes away but people build mechanisms on how to deal with it so that it doesn't effect their every day life... Some people celebrate the life of that person instead of looking at it as they will never see them again... They see it as a way to make sure that they person is looked at in a positive way, they their life was not a waste and that it was lived to the fullest... Whenever I think of my father yes a tear comes to my eye but I remind myself that I was my Daddy's ONLY little girl and that he only wanted me to be happy and although I cry because I miss him I know that he is always right beside me.... RIP

..............There is a SUCH thing as doing too much when it comes to your children.... It is ok to protect your children from the dangers of the world but you have to allow them to learn from the world at some point.... If NOT then you will have a child who is unable to function in the real world because they are so dependent on their parents that they cant even make a single decision on their own... As an adult we have to be function in society, make mistakes, and live their own lives or they will forever be picked on because they are sheltered from the world they have no idea how to even respond to what life has thrown or will throw at them... Its all about being well-rounded so teach and allow your children to do just that.... Remember let them live, laugh and love...they wont be able to with you hanging on to their coat tail.... You can not no matter how much you try keep them from experiencing any pain at all.... A good parent knows that children need to be balanced in order to

The new thing to communicate to the world is social networks like Twitter and Facebook , and because of this we have created monsters, we have created what I like to call "Social Diva's".... These diva's are men and women who talk a big game online and in person they like to throw tantrums when they do not get their way... Alot of these men and women are only "cool" online and nothing more, it is just a facade.... Our society has allowed people to create separate persona's to fool the masses into believing that they are someone different... Truth is there is always someone who knew you in your former life so no matter how much you try cover up your past it is still there, its still exists.... So here is what I think. BE YOURSELF.....how HARD is that? People will either love you or hate you and neither option should make a difference to you. I'm just saying take a look in the mirror and love you for once and not be concerned with what societies pr

You have been hurt, lied to, and felt the pain of a broken heart but that does not mean that you can get back to being the you use to be. You can be happy again if you allow yourself to be happy again... It was said best in "Madea's Family Reunion", "Let's be honest all men come for something.....well some men come to restore..." When you find a man who truly loves you and wants to be the man who loves you and only you he has come to restore you back to the woman you used to be, he has come to restore that smile to your face, he has come to restore the happiness in your life that you use to feel.... It doesn't have to be a man who restores you, it can be something that you can do on your own BUT the key here is that YOU, yes YOU, yourself have to really want it. So go after your happiness restore that feeling you once felt about YOU.... At the end of the day the ONLY thing that matters is your happiness so make sure that you are happy.... Its okay for yo